But where I come from, we need these tools to have the courage and inspiration to take on these opportunities.
Otherwise, our futures are more or less left to luck and unfortunately our chances of winning this type of lottery are very unlikely.
Rather than a fear of failure dissuading young people from taking chances which could lead them to a better life, an emphasis on these things could help people drive towards success. That's because it is not about the years in your life, but rather the life in your years which holds value.
Therefore, it's important that the ability to make choices and take opportunities as an individual is emphasised.
Although the government is responsible for providing everyone with an equal fighting chance at success, more support in school to help individuals develop their creative passion, willingness and sense of family are vital to encourage that success.
Do you know a child or young person who could tell adults a thing or two? Email gabriella.jozwiak@haymarket.com or call her on 020 8267 4729