General Election 2024: 'My family have struggled with the system for too long – young carers like me urgently need it to change'

Ostensibly, these are lovely, well-intentioned comments by teachers or other parents.  But looking back, I wonder if this shows how easily you can fall into being a young carer without anyone questioning it. With an election looming, perhaps it’s time politicians and the voters who elect them started doing a bit more questioning about a system that leaves a million children caring for a family member, often with little or no support.

I grew up with my mum and sister, who has a range of disabilities and health conditions. I would support her with physiotherapy, be a sight guide when out in public, or provide emotional support, particularly surrounding upcoming hospital appointments and procedures. My childhood was a happy one – we went through all the stages of bickering, “borrowing” of clothes, and petty arguments that most sisters do – but it wasn’t always plain sailing.