Q: I am working with a family where the children witnessed domestic abuse. There are concerns about their behaviour but mum blames it on her ex-partner and does not want to work with support services. How can I help?
Jeanie Lynch: Many children act out their trauma and distress by being aggressive, emotional and unwilling to form relationships with other adults. This can often be labelled as "disruptive behaviour" with children getting told off rather than given support.
The fact that you are aware of the situation and are in contact with mum is half the battle, even if she is unwilling to engage. If she knows your work with the children is helping them, even in a small way, she may be more likely to talk to you. Support from specialist services may be a step too far for her at the moment.
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