This is a worthwhile read for anyone planning to start individual or group work sessions with young people aged 13 to 19. It is full of interesting case studies, personal observations and views on teenage behaviour.
Do not be put off by the horribly old-fashioned cover and the rather odd way the type is set — this is never going to be a resource that leaps off the shelf. Instead, focus on the content, which is written in an engaging style and draws on the author's wide experiences as a youth worker and counsellor.
It is obvious from the first page that Nick Luxmoore "walks the walk", which is refreshing and at times amusing. It is easy to relate to his recollections as he explores the dynamics of young people's friendships and feelings. The first chapter "Kevin: In Defence of 13-year-old Boys" is particularly enjoyable, as it explores masculinity and parental relationships and offers insights into male adolescent development.
"Brilliant Laughs" looks at young people's use of joking and the subtext behind some of their more inappropriate jokes, which I am sure many youth workers, teachers and counsellors will recognise. In particular, the author's dissection of the issues faced by many professionals — how to challenge sexist, racist or homophobic "jokes" when none of the young people see them as offensive — is really thought-provoking.
The book may also be of some help to those looking for ways to use psychodrama as part of a therapeutic programme for young people. Of course, it cannot provide a full solution to the needs and behaviours of teenagers in isolation and it is important that less experienced practitioners recognise this book is merely an introduction.
But if you are looking for a collection of lively and thought-provoking case studies then this book is for you. With its tried-and-tested methods for encouraging young people to talk and great ideas for making sure they are heard, this is a book that can be dipped into time and time again.
Reviewed by Vanessa Rogers, youth work trainer, consultant and author
Buy Listening to Young People in School, Youth Work and Counselling now
