- When did you meet? Dahpne: "When Jay lobbed a mug at my head. I was coming out of the church I attend in Greenwich about five years ago and Jay and his mates were outside throwing things at people. He looked quite impressed when I caught the mug." Jay: "Me and friends used to hang about and cause trouble when we were bored. I broke my ring when we were throwing things and Daphne offered to get it fixed. I went back...